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If you’re not quite sure… Ok, it’s time for me to say some things here, man to man.  While times are definitely changing, it’s still true that most marriages end because us men can’t control our sex drives and we go off and have an affair.  If that is the case with you, do me … Read more Men’s advice

Make Sure To Keep It Fun The last thing you want to do is to put yourself and/or your spouse under any pressure as you begin to modify your sexual relationship, so I strongly suggest that the two of you try to keep this process filled with a healthy, positive, fun and adventurous attitude. In … Read more Intimate life in marriage. Continuation

 So, you’re sitting down with your spouse to tackle the finances.  The first step is to get an accurate picture of where you are at in terms of income and expenses.  On your worksheet (computer based or on paper), layout two basic areas, one can be called simply “Income” and the other “Expenses”.  Now as … Read more Financial problems in marriage. Part 2

 Next to sexual issues, financial issues seems to be one of the most common sources of relationship problems.  If your day to day life is filled with stress and worry over finances, it’s nearly impossible to keep a positive attitude about things, and sooner or later, the stress will start to affect even the strongest … Read more Financial problems in marriage. Part 1

I think it is an absolute shame when marriages fail because one or the other party in the marriage has grown unhappy or unsatisfied with the sexual aspect of the relationship. There is nothing more short sighted and selfish in my mind than for a person who is an otherwise typical marriage to begin having … Read more Intimate life in marriage.

 In talking to people who have gone through divorce, many times I hear them say something that just breaks my heart.  “I was bored, bored with my life, my job, my wife and so a divorce was at least a way to try to escape that boredom.”  Hearing this affects me this way because I … Read more Boredom in marriage.

    Infidelity is quite possibly the single most damaging thing that can take place in marriage, and unfortunately it’s also one of the more common problems that married couples will face.  Statistics vary on this subject, but it’s widely reported that 60% of men and 40% of women will participate in an extramarital affair at some … Read more Dealing with Infidelity